Monday 15 November 2010

"And if you can't find your way, hear my voice - follow the sound."


This would have been me two and a bit years ago. I weigh 2 stone less than I did in this picture, so I'm kind of taking comfort in the fact that I can't still look like that. And yes, it is the same beach as the picture in my last post. Portugal FTW :)

Ttfn,
Girl on the Right.
x

(The Autumn Film - Follow the Sound)

Monday 8 November 2010

"Rumours have it that you are in love again. Rumours that are completely unsubstantiated."


This photo was taken earlier this year, whilst I was on holiday. I wasn't actually able to weigh myself at this time, mainly because the few months previously had been the "lets take [me] to the doctors and get some fat medicine to make her put on weight" phase. That was rubbish... But anyway. I'm not sure whether or not I weigh more/less than what I did in this picture, but I definitely know that I don't look anything like the Girl on the Left.

But I also know that just making this edit has given me a bit more motivation to stay strong. So far so good.

Ttfn,
Girl on the Right.
x

(Regina Spektor - December)

"I'm all out of foolproof ideas so don't ask me how to get started, it's all uncharted."

I read somewhere that we should be our own thinspiration. Personally, I like this idea as a concept, but how can it work in reality? If you aren't happy with what you are, or what you have ever been, then how can you 'aspire' to be yourself?

When I see photos of myself, I find them pretty triggering. Just because, as an art student, I've learnt to be critical of photos and images so that I can change them. So, I see a photo of myself, and instantly I will see the flaws. I will see everything that I don't like. Usually (and yes, it's pathetic), I'll remove that spot, or fix my eyebrows, or make my smile just that more smiley. But then I realised, everything that I hate about my body and shape, I see that in photos too. So why can't I edit that? Obviously not publicly, it would be a bit odd for one photo suddenly coming out of me looking a lot better. But, why can't I edit these photos to make myself look how I 'aspire' to look, and then use those as my thinspiration? Something that I could actually achieve, knowing that this is how I could actually look.

So, I thought I would share this 'experiment' with you, using (badly) edited versions of myself as my own 'thinspiration', to see if maybe, this will give me the strength that I need to become the girl on the left, and stop being,

The Girl on the Right.
x

(Sara Bareilles - Uncharted)